The men described in this series all possess similar traits; loyalty, character, humor, humility, grit, compassion, “bad-ass-ness” but most, kindness.
This guy embodies that last trait.
In keeping with the common thread, Roger is a dear and old friend of my late father and the entire McCabe family. Roger is a true friend.
As a lifelong educator and principal, Roger will appreciate the math that accompanies this chapter.
Roger grew up in the Acre section of Lowell, 2nd oldest to a brood of 8. Six sisters and a brother. The Landrys are”breeders”. Roger’s two daughters represent just a couple of their 28 first cousins. The latest generation producing upwards of 63 offspring (footnote to Ancestry.com).
Jesus, folks, don’t you have Netflx? Bon jour, ya animals.
You need a formal organizational chart to keep track of these people. Make note, if you are doing business, eating dinner, having coffee, sitting, standing, driving, golfing, voting or breathing there is 73% chance you are in the presence of a Landry. Amazingly, I know approximately 81% of them and they are all simply good, decent, hard working human beings. That can’t be said about most.
Back to Rog.
With a glorious quaff of snow white lettuce covering his dome, Roger was a lifetime educator and principal. Began his career as a 6th grade teacher but spent the lion’s share of his professional years as a Principal in Lowell Public Schools. The very first Principal of the Murkland Elementary School, constructed just steps from his childhood home in the Acre, Roger had the perfect affect and effect on so many young students. My mother had the privilege to work in the library of the Murkland under Roger’s direction, and I would frequently visit. I witnessed first hand the firm but gentle hand Roger lead this school. Many of the students came from poor and broken homes and Roger served as a leader, role model and father figure to so many. Regardless of what condition these children entered that place, I can guarantee they came out better students and people when they left. Roger was truly born for this mission and good work.
Away from those classrooms and hallways, Roger was a very fun and social guy. Never would shy away from a card game, a sporting event or just a “night with the boys”.
More math you request? You got it.
Roger has been to Las Vegas 51 times. 51! The only people that have been to Sin City more than Roger are Frank Sinatra, Sigfried and Roy. Sammy Davis Jr. was only there 46 times, based on my non-research.
While always a gentleman, Roger is no softy, especially when it comes to common courtesy and politeness. A great tale of Roger from way back. Dad was working late, Mom was at some type of event tagging along with the Landrys and other friends. Allegedly, a fellow guest of this party was being a bit inappropriate toward Mom. Legend has it Roger had him pinned against the wall quicker than you can say “Get to the Principal’s office“. Thanks buddy.
A family man to the core, Roger has lead a wonderfully humble and great life; just ask wife Margie and daughters Carolyn and Patti.
A gentleman, a scholar and a friend.
3 thoughts on “REAL MEN: Roger”
very appropriate. great guy
On Thu, Sep 16, 2021 at 10:58 AM Can I Be Frank & Crew? wrote:
> Frank McCabe posted: ” The men described in this series all possess > similar traits; loyalty, character, humor, humility, grit, compassion, > “bad-ass-ness” but most, kindness. This guy embodies that last trait. Roger > Landry. In keeping with the common thread, Roger is a” >
Love your story about Roger
Thank you for sharing
Great article about another Of Lowell’s “ good guys”. Roger is a wonderful man, a gentleman, and a friend to all.
Your Dad snd Tommy McKay must be smiling in the heavens above with this one.